Doug, aren't you attributing a bit more (I guess) "agency" to these apparently "smug fathead suburbanites"? In addition, aren't you therefore implicitly crediting the capitalist system with giving them the very options that they must have in order for you to claim that they are (freely) choosing these things?
It's not that the fatheads don't annoy me too. It's just that I have friends who are fatheads; I myself am probably a good candidate for fatheadhood, and I find myself wishing dearly that I might encounter "the dark-skinned" in something other than a social role of menial service.
Bill