Socialist planning must satisfy needs arising from biological givens, among other needs and desires (otherwise it will be a disappointment, nay, even a tragedy -- e.g. socialism with inadequate food), but that doesn't make socialist planning the same as fascist planning. In fact, I have argued against population control discourse in many a post on abortion and reproductive rights here and elsewhere. Goods and services ought to be abundant & socially provided for, but many (most?) of them had better be made use of individually.
Further, I agree with liberal feminists like Katha (and including anticommunist Slavenka Drakulic) that socialism without tampons (a need arising from a biological given and subsequently developed historically) pointed to inadequate regard for women's needs and desires and lack of democratic participation of women in socialism beyond tokenism.
Yoshie