I'm surprised that Flemings didn't block the post....
Anyhow, questioning Yes categorically takes you in the direction of MacKinnon & Dworkin, which is to say, puritanical moralism. As for No, I haven't heard of any feminist who is happy with deconstructing No in the context of rape. Yes & No are not symmetrical in feminist thoughts.
Feminists, in any case, aren't interested in "deconstruction of binaries" _per se_; it's not "binaries" per se that oppress women. Feminism is a political theory & project (and as such it seeks to expose the naturalization of gender and other problems in so far as they block the emancipation of women & abolition of gender oppression), whereas deconstruction is not. Deconstruction can be used by a person of any political sympathy -- left-wing, right-wing, chicken-wing.
Yoshie