>One beauty of claiming a bit of essence is that one gets to frame this
>sorta stuff as alienation therefrom - and I do. They're welcome to their
>barebacking and 'abstinence', of course. Whatever's constraining 'em, it'll
>never be me.
Now I'm waay over ... but I need to clarify
More accurately, the saying of one thing and the doing - or the wanting to do - of another is what I was referring to. As I said before, I see no scientific need to posit a norm for sexual practice itself.
Cheers, Rob.