> This seems like projection to me. A baby crying for milk has no command
> capabilities. It is we [some of us anyway] who choose to see it as a
> command. Of course one can easily slip to a legalistic/sociologistic frame
> and say the baby's crying is a command backed by the sanction of the state
> that it not be denied being fed and hence we have laws to prevent
> infanticide and the like, but isn't the whole point the fact that the
> overwhelming number of parents want to feed and love and cherish their
> baby, despite when they have bad hair days?
>
> Ian
>
I suspect response to a baby crying is hard-wired. I have seen research results that show parents are usually highly reactive to their own kids cries, more highly reactive than random outsiders.
I do not feel like getting all sociobiological about the point,a nd I am not paying enough attention to fully fit this into the discussion, but babies cry for lots of reasons. I assume the ones who make their parents / caregivers respond better to their needs probably survive better. People who do not get how this is power MIGHT learn by spending more time around crying babies.
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