bad girls/bad boys

[joanna bujes]

At 04:00 PM 02/13/2002 -0500, you wrote:
>Nine times out of ten, whenever I hear the words "I am really kind to
>women, super sensitive and not bad looking, why can't I get a date when all
>these assholes can", a quick glance at the person saying it reveals that
>the reason they cannot get a date is that they are a whining, passive
>aggressive shite who can't get a date because he's too wrapped up in
>himself.  It's often worth reminding people that "sensitive" people are
>"sensitive" to the feelings of other people, and are almost always very
>popular as a result.  Someone who is only "sensitive" in the sense of being
>mortally wounded by slights against themselves, is known as "a selfish
>little whiner".

True. True.


>And as is so often the case in matters logical, solving the easy half helps
>us with the difficult half.  Oft-times, women like men who are freeloaders,
>uncouth, bad at housework, and yes, indeed, even sometimes violent, for the
>simple reason that they are often basically nice people.

Nah. I think they hang with them cause they remind them of one or more of 
their evil parents and there's this repetition compulsion or whatever the 
correct psychonalytical phrase is.

  Emotionally needy
>people need to be really quite amazing in other ways to not be a total pain
>in the ass; otherwise, they suck the life out of you faster than German
>accounting principles.

True, true...and well said.

Joanna