Talked a bit about cultural differences (re: sex) with a girl friend from Lebanon. According to her, sex in the middle east is fast and furious; no slow hand and easy touch there. Also heard, second hand, that latin women like it that way too. What can I say? My own sense is that women like to be drawn rather than bullied into coming. But let me ask one more question: is oral sex (cunnilingus) a normal part of the repertoire in your corner of the world? If not, that might explain the need for more forceful intercourse...
Joanna B.