On Wednesday, May 29, 2002, at 02:41 PM, Thomas Seay wrote:
>
> --- joanna bujes <joanna.bujes at ebay.sun.com> wrote:
>
>> It will be a happy day when men discover they have
>> ten (permanently erect
>> and supple) fingers as well as a dick.
>
> Joanna, that may be how you feel about it...however,
> do you think that most women would be satisfied by a
> man with 10 fingers and a dick that goes South? And,
> even if the woman got satisfaction, would the man? I
> have yet to hear of a man who had an orgasm from
> fingering
> a woman.
>
i understood joanna's point to be something along the lines of, there's more than one way to skin a cat. this doesn't mean that erectile dysfunction is not a real problem. it is. the focus on penises and erections, however, is not only about ED, but about manliness and performance even for sexually "normal" males. moreover, it betrays a certain lack of flexibility and even creativity.
imo.
i'm reminded of the recent article about the narcolepsy drug that's being used by (and prescribed for) people with no diagnosis of narcolepsy, but only as a way to stay awake. geez, maybe y'all should just *get some sleep*!
jeff