sex and the left

joanna bujes joanna.bujes at ebay.sun.com
Wed Oct 23 10:17:18 PDT 2002


At 12:17 AM 10/23/2002 -0400, Yoshie wrote:
>Isn't it a fantasy that sex work is inherently different from and
>worse (or better) than any other form of wage labor?

The honest answer is "I don't know." I cannot really say that I am sufficiently free of social conditioning about sex to say that it is or it isn't. I have had the opportunity to trade sex for money a few times in my life, and it never felt right and I didn't do it. My reasons for refusing had nothing to do with being called a slut - they had more to do with my being unable to dissociate myself from my own subjective sexuality so as to serve as a conduit for someone else. For the same reason, I don't even think I could function as a sexual surrogate, for example.

Right now, it seems that there are very few connections left between people: friendship, familial connections, and sexual connections (including or not including love). I have a problem with prostitution because though it takes the form of a sexual connection, it is not a sexual connection. In my mind sex involves two free people. Call me crazy. I have the same problem with alienated wage labor, but we weren't talking about wage labor. The thread originated with an assertion that the left was anti-sex, and it devolved into the more precise assertion that I was one of these left pc prudes because I would not agree that porn and prostitution were liberating.

I still don't.

Joanna



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