Presumably, before you turned eight, your mother or her partner or both cooked for you, cleaned after you, etc. Would she have been a bad person, if she had hired the services of others to do them (e.g., buying prepared and semi-prepared meals, hiring baby sitters, sending you to a kindergarten and then to a school, etc.), instead of doing them herself?
And what should your current partner do if you find yourself disabled and can't cook for and clean after yourself?
What should your family do once you become too old to cook for and clean after yourself? -- Yoshie
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