Unfortunately, I had similar experience. People are squandering money on car DVDs (these suckers are expensive!) but refuse to pay for the upkeep of common property (such as water, maintenance, electricity, insurance etc.) - we have about 50% non-payment rate and will likley go belly up within the next two or three years. Particularly upsetting about that is not just the loss of real nice piece of real property in historic Baltimore, but the fact that this experience corroboartes the "tragedy of the commons" narrative prominently featuring in the neoclassical econ legitimating mythology. Cooperation is something one learns though experience and that is why there is always more cohesion on the top of social ladder.
> and I can suggest several entirely rational theories for
> their apparently irrational decisions, based on my
> observations. Only theories, would need further
What are they?
Wojtek