"Bad" Mothers: The Politics of Blame Re: Radio Doug

Yoshie Furuhashi furuhashi.1 at osu.edu
Sat Mar 29 16:01:42 PST 2003



>Yoshie Furuhashi wrote:
>
>>You can't manage a chronic illness, be it a "mental" illness or
>>otherwise, by blaming yourself.
>
>Who's blaming oneself? Blame mom!
>
>Doug

Blaming moms is what psychoanalysts often does. Left-wing and/or feminist psychoanalysts have tried to blame authoritarian, patriarchal, and/or sexually predatory dads or father figures instead. Either way, it's no political help. Psychoanalysis has been a problem, rather than a solution.

Cf.

***** _"Bad" Mothers: The Politics of Blame in Twentieth-Century America_ Edited by Molly Ladd-Taylor, Laurie Umansky ISBN 0814751202 400 pages Paperback $20.00 Publication date: 11/1/1997 Also available in Cloth

In the past quarter century, "bad" mothers have moved noticeably toward center stage in American culture. While Susan Smith will eventually fade from the tabloids, the monster mother that she represents has a storied and long history. Mothers have been blamed for a host of problems, from autism in children (due to chilly "refrigerator" mothers), to homosexuality (attributed to "smothering" moms), to welfare dependency and crime (caused by black "matriarchs" and single mothers).

Some mothers are not good mothers. No one can deny that. There are women who neglect their children, abuse them, and fail to provide them with proper psychological nurturance. While such mothers have always stimulated the American imagination, the definition of what constitutes a bad mother has expanded significantly in recent years. Indeed, with a distinct minority of American families living the two-parent, one-worker lifestyle once considered the norm, we all face the discomfiting question, Do most mothers now qualify as "bad" mothers in one way or another?

Drawing together the work of prominent scholars and journalists, _"Bad" Mothers_ considers such diverse topics as the mother-blaming theories of psychological and medical "experts," bad mothers in the popular media, the scapegoating of mothers in politics, and the punitive approach to "bad" mothers by social service and legal authorities. The volume also includes the stories of individual "bad" mothers, from sterilization survivor Willie Mallory to rock star Courtney Love. Ably edited by two leading scholars, _"Bad" Mothers_ marks an important contribution to the literature on motherhood.

Molly Ladd-Taylor is Associate Professor of History at York University in Ontario and author of _Mother-Work: Women, Child Welfare and the State, 1890-1930_. Lauri Umansky is Assistant Professor of History at Suffolk University in Boston and author of _Motherhood Reconceived: Feminism and the Legacies of the Sixties_, also available from NYU Press.

<http://www.nyupress.org/product_info.php?products_id=68> ***** -- Yoshie

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