DP
--here's a shocker for DP, from an unrepentant "real rad cred." wallowing in 'negativity', I've been to Vietnam and not been to a country that is more wild about Americans, China included and that's pretty hard to beat. But if I left it at that, I'd be providing a pretty superficial picture. My impressions from Vietnam were at best impressions from Vietnamese who spoke English, French or Chinese. In China, on the other hand, in depth conversations with Chinese in Chinese can turn up a whole assortment of opinions about the US, even from the most arently "pro-american". i think it's fair to say my impressions about China and the extent of its pro-americanism is a lot deeper than what I could derive from my Vietnam visit.
On the other hand, the overly sensitive reaction you give to my response to Mike's friend is a tad off base. How would I deal with him? I'd just talk with him. Obviously nothing I stated implied he was a liar, but that doesn't change the fact that most American soldiers on the ground are quite limited in their capacity to know much about what Iraqis "think". They hear what their commanders tell them they think. They hear what Iraqis who speak English are telling them what they think. And it about stops there I'm afraid, linguistic limitations, not to mention military security, leaves it at that.
With that soldier, in a conversation, I might bring up some or none of these points. Although I bet ya anything, presented in a reasonable tone he probably could accept a fair amount of what i stated above...). I would probably stick with what we already agree on (wmd lies lies lies, pointless soldier deaths, the undesirability, from the perspective of dead and injured soldiers of sending troops off to die at the drop of a hat, where are jeb bush's patriotic sons? bill oreilly's nephews...) and develop it from there to the extent possible, no less than I would develop a conversation with a Lutheran on the topic of disaffection with Bush's policy in Iraq, though I haven't got a superstitious bone in my body and we couldn't agree on anything much related to the existence of God.
steve