Who could blame a woman for avoiding AFCs like the plague? It's better to deal with somebody with some fabric , someone who knows what they want, even if such a person is occasionally rude or obnoxious. Dealing with such a person is much better than dealing with those gelatinous, mellifluous saps who just mold themselves according to how they think the other person wants them to be...As paradoxical as it seems, they dont see the other person, dont really want to deal with another person, they just want to melt(d). My first instinct when I run across the female version of AFC is to run like hell. The few times when I did not run like hell, I later regretted it...when these people's "repressed" dark side does raise its head, watch out because you are going to find out what a "season in hell" is like. I will take a "mean-ass bitch" over these type of women any day of the week.
-Thomas
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