I'm not sure about the racism. Like I said in a previous post, it's hard to navigate the urban schools -- it took me a lot of time to figure out and, having done it, it takes me a lot of time and energy to make sure that the ones I pick work right, although, overall, it has been a great experience. I can see how people who don't have the money for private school and who don't have the time/energy for urban school navigation, would head for the suburbs. And there's no question that the real estate is cheaper. But not much cheaper, especially considering the extra cost of commuting.
Somehow though, I think hell is cold. So, if I do wind up in hell, I think it will be like a suburb...forever.
Joanna