Gosh, you're modest, Ted. And perceptive and sensitive. I'm ever so glad you are so attuned to the feelings of others. So attuned that you even know what would get them off better than they know! Please tell me, Ted, what would get me off most -- what's the best kind of sex for me to have?
Since I am sorta dense and don't handle abstractions as well as you, and also, as you can see, am not nearly as empathetic as you are, I will need fairly low level and precise directions. Maybe you could start with the questions I put to Mike Ballard about oral sex, various positions, and degrees of unclothedness. I understand that these are highly individualized questions, but you know me fairly well by now, and someone as emphathetic and perceptive as you should have no trouble expalining the best kind of sex for me.
Eager to learn,
jks
--- Ted Winslow <egwinslow at rogers.com> wrote:
> Ravi wrote:
>
>
> > there is no justification/rationale to [attempt
> to] restrict (or
> > even comment on) the actions of one or more
> persons unless it harms
> > others (in a demonstrable way).
>
> Do you mean that no justification is available for
> the judgment, for
> instance, that sexual relations in which clinical
> narcissism plays a
> significant role, i.e. in which individuals are
> incapable of
> experiencing what others actually feel because their
> experience of them
> is distorted by projective phantasy, won't be as
> good as relations in
> which this problem doesn't exist? This isn't true.
> All that's
> required is to compare through direct experience sex
> in which the
> problem does exist with sex in which it doesn't.
> Sex with people who
> idealize you, for instance, isn't as good as sex
> with people able to be
> attuned to your actual feelings. This requires from
> you a capacity to
> be attuned yourself to the feelings of others, a
> capacity very
> difficult to develop, but if you have such a
> capacity it will be
> possible to justify the judgment.
>
> Ted
>
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