> At 11:04 AM 4/28/2005, BklynMagus wrote:
> >Dear List:
> >
> >I wonder if leftists will be quick to defend this professor
> >or if they will enlist in the anti-sex brigade.
>
>
> I don't know what SUNY's policy is exactly, but a private NY university's
> policy was no dating students. I'm gonna guess that, since SUNY's handbook
> for faculty hiring was 4.5 inches thick, full of rules and regs about how
> to avoid violating anti-discrim laws, then they had a very clear law that
> likely said "no dating students." Could be wrong, but if I'm not, I have
> no
> sympathy for the guy.
>
> One of my students wanted to date me, too. But, there are rules (and they
> are good rules) and I respected them enough to wait til he was no longer a
> student--not just no longer in my class, but graduated from the
> university.
> It's the least any intelligent human being can do, rules or no rules. If,
> by 81, you have not figured out that you have the upper hand in the
> classroom and that responding to their come ons is unprofessional,
> well..... this guy's not too bright and I'm not going to defend him. As a
> SUNY professor, you get training in the policy and you know the rules.
> There's no excuse. I don't care whether he pecked her on the nose or went
> down on her until he got lockjaw. I don't care whether they had missionary
> sex or she rode him hard and put him away wet. I don't care if SUNY says
> it's ok to fuck your student. He's an idiot.
>
>
> The rest is a criminal case and the facts need to come out before you can
> make a judgment. In this case, he admits he fucked her. End of story in my
> book. He's an idiot, even if there aren't any rules. He's 81 and unaware
> of
> he said/she said cases like this? He's 81 and unable to see that, gee,
> even
> if consensual, it just might not work out particularly well. Shit happens.
> When you're 81 and married, probably to someone who isn't pleased about
> your affair, it's even more idiotic to decide to fuck your student.
>
> Kelley
>
>
>
> Kelley
>
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