Quite true. The ubiquity of recorded music has diminished the communal aspect of music making and produced such debased listening experiences as Muzak. This has had the same negative impact on the social role of music that fast food has had on the social role of eating.
>... my answer to your question: "But was it a pleasure for their
>listeners?" Sure it was -- why wouldn't enjoying an evening of music making
>with people you were close to not be?
I would answer with one word: karaoke. I myself have never participated in karaoke, but I've had some horrifying glimpses of it. I suspect karaoke's popularity owes much to another popular pastime -- drinking -- but regrettably as a non-drinker I lack that experience enhancer.
Carl