>I'm so confused. Do orgasms have to exist for a reason? Why couldn't
>they be related to just the sheer joy of sensual pleasure and
>opening/trusting the other?
That seems to be the case in fact. According to that research, sex (or at least orgasm) *does* promote trust. Via a chemical hormone which acts on the brain. But its still a reason, why don't you like there to be reasons for stuff?
> Why do we have to make an instrument of everything?
Hey, its not my fault if there are reasons for things. I'm not God, I didn't design human beings. ;-)
Bill Bartlett Bracknell Tas