<div> </div> <div>A full-body orgasm just by gazing? That sounds pretty good. I can't say I've had that experience. </div> <div> </div> <div>Yes, the challenge of seduction is pretty stimulating, but ultimately love is a lot better (hate to be sentimental).</div> <div> </div> <div>The difference I'm talking about is more the quantity rather than the quality of sexual fantasy.</div> <div> </div> <div><br><br> </div> <div><span class="gmail_quote">On 11/16/05, <b class="gmail_sendername">joanna</b> <<a href="mailto:123hop@comcast.net">123hop@comcast.net</a>> wrote:</span> <blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="PADDING-LEFT: 1ex; MARGIN: 0px 0px 0px 0.8ex; BORDER-LEFT: #ccc 1px solid"><br><br>boddi satva wrote:<br><br>><br>> Comrade Joanna,<br>><br>> I knew I was going to get into trouble. <br><br>No, I was just curious.<br><br>><br>> The answer to your question is simpler than you propose. The thing I<br>> find sexy is women. I'm not a brute. The more a woman wants/loves me,<br>> the better - that goes without saying. <br><br>It has been my experience with many men that what they like best is "the<br>challenge" rather than the encounter. So there isn't much that goes<br>without saying.<br><br>>  It's just that desire for women is a constant fact of male <br>> heterosexuality and I don't think men and women have at all equitable<br>> fantasy lives.<br><br>It's hard to know. In the heavy hormonal days of adolescence it was<br>actually possible for me to experience a full-body orgasm by gazing <br>intently at a boy I lusted after.<br><br>>  Therefore, I don't think men expect women to think about us the way<br>> we think about them. I think sexual desire in men is literally a<br>> different physical experience than it is in women, at least outside of <br>> sex itself.<br><br>It's impossible to know since we can't be in two bodies at once. I also<br>don't know whether women have lesser drive because of the fear of being<br>labeled whores or because their sexual desire is a different physical <br>experience.<br><br>Joanna<br><br><br>___________________________________<br><a href="http://mailman.lbo-talk.org/mailman/listinfo/lbo-talk">http://mailman.lbo-talk.org/mailman/listinfo/lbo-talk</a><br></blockquote></div> <br>