Doug, you are about to learn why the nuclear family sucks (sometimes).
The days of spontaneous sex are (for the most part) history. Get used to the idea of scheduled sex dates: ("Ok, the babysitter will be with him between 2 and 4, BE READY, if you know what I mean"). If with such time constraints, you find it difficult to always rise to the occasion, you have got company. If you never find it difficult under such circumstances, then you're a better man than me Gunga Din.
Ok. I am exaggerating, but just a little.
-Thomas
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