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2) The main answer is that among people who do nonstandard sex, the activities are voluntary, consensual, and within limits acceptable to both (or all) parties. That's why it's not abuse any more than it's assault to hit someone in a boxing match, to use an imperfect analogy.
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CB; So are there no BDSMers who commit rape or domestic violence outside of their BDSM relationships ? What are the statistics ?
And you are saying that it's all neat and clean , like no other range in a human activity. Everybody is just absolutely a cleancut BDSMer who meticulously and rigorously doesn't' violate any of the rules, or they are an absolute rapist/domestic violator.
What self-disciplined, strict people these BDSMers are for libertines. Are all BDSMers leftists ? Feminists ? None of them are male supremacists ? This BDSM is truly amazing stuff. It instills politcal and ethical discipline that nothing else seems to be able to do.