I didn't read the whole thread. Who said that their personal pleasure is a form of politics. I must have missed it.
As Carol Hanisch said lo so many years ago: to recognize that the personal is political is to discover that what are often called "personal problems" are really the result of the inequitable organization of society. Thus, when looking at women's condition in 1968, she concluded, "there are no *personal* solutions at this time." (You weren't going to fix inequities at home in the household division of labor solely by duking it out with your husband. You weren't going to fix sex harassment on the job by confronting your boss). You need political organization and collective struggle to fix those problems.
Queer Dewd: where feminists can suck my delicate, feminine cock!