> Joanna:
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>"I think there are two good reasons to have sex with someone: 1) you love them and are sexually attracted to them or 2) there is a strong sexual attraction."
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>For me that is a script. Why do I have to love someone to have sex with them? Or even have a strong sexual attraction? What if I feel like fisting someone and a person feels like being fisted? Do I have to love him to fist him? Be sexually attracted to him? For me that is like saying I have to love someone or be sexually attracted to him to go to the movies with him.
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No, it isn't. Film has nothing to do with sex. Would you agree that it
makes sense to eat when you're hungry? To say that sexual
attraction/love is a precondition for sex is a "script" is like saying
that hunger is a "script" for eating.
I mean fist whom you like when you like, but it's absurd to say that eating when hungry is a script.
Joanna