[lbo-talk] Sex and Stuff

[Carrol Cox]

In some advice column a year or two or so ago a woman wrote in saying
that she had a yen for her husband spanking her as foreplay. She was
embarassed about asking him. The columnist (probably 'Dear Abby')
suggested that the woman clip the column and show it to him.
Essentially, the woman was saying that embarassment was a limitation on
her freedom, and the columnist was suggesting a way in which that
constraint on human freedom could be overcome.

I wonder if Charles thinks that husband would be an abuser if he took
the hint.

Carrol