And sometimes there actually is a civil war. Allende had the biggest chunk of society explicitly endorsing revolution to socialism I know of (from a third of the population in his election to a slim majority in municipal elections two years later), but they still lost the decisive conflict when it came to it, and how. Chile today? The most capitalistic society in south america, by far, from the kids clamoring for nike t-shirts to the privatized social security to the relatively good economic growth under sustained grim neoliberalism.
I think explicitly advocating only trying to bring a small bit of society with you on any major social change is a very dangerous prospect. On the other hand it squares nicely with US leftists in delusion about how miniscule their base of support is and unwilling to engage with the other 97% of the country to reverse that trend.
> > A minority of a population becomes active, and by their actions (even
> > before _official_ change of law or institution) they change reality.
> > Example: The black riots of the '60s. The world in which those riots
> > occurred was a different world, institutionally, from the world in which
> > they didn't occur. That changed the attitudes of millions of
> > individuals. As far as I can tell there has _never_ been a really major
> > change that did not follow this pattern.
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> It's inspiring to believe that "a minority can change society" but the
> process of change is more complex than that. The protest movements of
> large
> constituences - particularly those which have formed the base of governing
> liberal and social democratic parties - can accelerate the process, but
> unless their unrest coincides with an underlying systemic need for the
> kinds
> of changes for which they are agitating, it will peter out or be
> suppressed
> by the state.