Ran the above by a "third world" brown female friend and she responded that if anything you are the one speaking more like "only a first world white male could". As a "third world"ish brown male, I can see that. But then again, this is and PEN-L are the fora where a bunch of angry white men "defended" brown/Arab men against racist assumptions by brown/black/red men (for considering questions on whether a bunch of untrained blokes could successfully fly sophisticated large aircrafts into tall narrow buildings)!
> How
> far do you want to go with typifying something as a "lifestyle
> demand"
See above. Why do you care how much further he wants to go, when he has specified exactly what he is talking about ("bikinis" for girls).
--ravi