From everything they say, they come from fairly well-off families at home. of course, this could be bragging. My one friend's father is an attorney. One brother is running a factory. And yet all of them are or want to be in the u.s. Even my close friend, k, who I watched transition from his first days in the u.s. to now, three years later, has married and is going through the green card process. I recall him being ecstatic once to learn that my kid called, asked for money and i responded, "sure, i'm transferring it online right now." K was ecstatic because this meant I had, to him, Indian values, not u.s. values. there are a ton of things about u.s. culture he doesn't appreciate compared to other Indian friends who have lots of great things to say about u.s. culture and why they don't want to live in India.
what is so great about being here. just the money? sold a bill of goods about opportunity?
At 02:03 PM 3/26/2010, Sandy Harris wrote:
>On 3/27/10, Chris Doss <lookoverhere1 at yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> > This sounds really dubious? If you have that kind of money
> > lying around, you're probably doing pretty well where you are.
>
>Sounds believable to me.
>
>I'm a Canadian male in China, was in my mid-50s when I
>came. I've had several women, all attractive and in their
>30s, suggest marriage. Some of them offered to pay me.
>It's definitely not my fortune or looks, and I doubt I am
>that charming. Could a visa be the attraction?
>
>I'm in the area where most illegal immigrants come from.
>It is big business. I'm told the going rate to be smuggled
>into the US is a few hundred thousand RMB, $40-70K.