> Do you think this means that men will have to learn to be better lovers?
Either they have, or some women (at least) have learned to be more easily pleased. Remember that Duke University girl a few months back, with the Powerpoint bedmate report? She seems to have had a whale of a time with precisely the sort of guys who used to be the most oafish 'lovers' going -- or at least, so I been told; namely, 18-21 year-old jocks.