> movement) we talked about how most men (all?) have fantasies about having sex
> with a lot of the women (or men, if gay) they meet, and even rape. Was this hard
> since it may be patly hard-wired we don't have to change our behavior to act
> appropriately?
i have never once in my life had a fantasy of raping a woman. Like Lewontin says, I am a human, you have to explain me. I am not going ten miles near one of those men's groups.
Yours, Rakesh