To my Lacanian ex-boyfriend of about 5 yrs. ago, I said once, "You're my libidinal cathexis!" We had a good chuckle over that. Michael Pugliese P.S. Is it you, Ken, that told me that story about Lacan visiting the USA, going to a baseball game (NY Yankees?!) being asked who he was, and replying, "I'm Jean Paul Sartre!"