yeah, but if you've learned how to have multiple orgasms, as a man (since for women, this isn't too difficult), it's precisely about prolonging the initial pleasure, by repeatedly nearing climax and then holding back. then you have to learn how to experience orgasm without ejaculation--too many men equate the two. in any event, even if you don't have multiple orgasms, the practice of repeatedly nearly climax makes for the kind of prolonged, intense pleasure that you're speaking of.
that said, quickies are fun, too. :)
kelley