come now! give it up and admit that you are getting awfully turned on by all that bad boy stuff from seay you criticize ;-) ;-).
i put the whole puzzle to the better half and questioned how come she was with a "nice guy" like me, and she responded: don't be silly, you marry the nice guys once you are done with the bad boys. i might as well have skipped the tattoo and motorcycle. :-(
--ravi