Both of you are being completely unfair and typically holier than thou. All she said was that she'd be happy to hear of bin Laden's demise. Does her echo of the majority's wishes so offend your sensibilities, that you have to ascribe to her some sort of straw person theory of the spectator approach to politics?
And by the way, by not participating in the anti-war against the Taliban movement and speaking against it I like to think I do deserve some credit for the Taliban's demise and AQ's dispersion and disruption. There was a serious choice of action involved for many, many people.
During the Vietnam war, you'll remember, the popular anti-war movement actually accomplished things. I don't seem to recall that people would say stuff like "I wish the US would stop acting like a bully, but I would cheer if they killed Ho Chi Minh."
Peter