>. counseling can
> > help them
> > understand and can help them negotiate ways to deal
> > with the situation,
> > but the real problem is never addressed. that
> > problem can only be
> > addressed by systemtic changes that individuals,
> > alone or as part of a
> > couple/family, aren't going to change.
>
>In other words, we're doomed. Who said you get to be
>happy or even not miserable. Devote yourself to the
>revo, and reconcile yourself to personal crucifixion,
>frustration, misery. That's a lotta help doll. Maybe
>yer right, but it's a dark fucking prescription.
and maybe you're given to purposeful misreadings and attempts to paint your interlocutor as having a position they don't hold. like the way yoshie treats you.
knock it off.
>There
>is an infinite amount of hope . . . but not for us.
>Smooches to you too. jks
grow up.