You may be attaching a different meaning to the term "moral" than Emma does. I think her sense of "moral" is more like Nietzche's comment that "morality" is "virtue in need of justification." Many thinkers distinguish between "morality" and ethical action or virtue.
"Morality," as a normative, socially approved code for behavior advertises itself as a guarantee for "kindness, sympathy, empathy,forgiveness and love" but in fact is nothing of the kind. I think that's what Emma is objecting to.
Joanna