Chris, you may not like to do kinky sex, but it's not sicko, depraved, or evil. It's not bad or wicked for people in voluntary, consensual, adult BDSM relationships to receive or inflict pain, or to be turned on by it. It's wicked to inflict unwanted pain on the nonconsenting, but it's also wrong to have vanilal sex with the nonconsenting. In both cases it;s the lack of consent that makes it wrong. As with any voluntray adult practice that doesn't affect others, the rule is: if you don't like it, don't do it. jks
--- John Thornton <jthorn65 at mchsi.com> wrote:
>
> >--- Brian Charles Dauth <magcomm at ix.netcom.com>
> wrote:
> >Being a masochist or dominant or
> >sadist is just as much a part of sexual orientation
> as
> >being gay or
> >lesbian.
> >---
> >
> >No it isn't. Being a sadist means being turned on
> by
> >causing pain, i.e., sick in the head.
> >
> >Chris Doss
>
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