>At the Rivington St Toys in Babeland <http://www.babeland.com>, I once
>eavesdropped on a sales clerk advising a lesbian couple on the purchase of
>their first strap-on. Weighing the merits of the various dildos, the
>touted the penis part of one model - adding helpfully that "if the balls
>get in the way, you can just cut them off."
>
>Doug
The ex's complaint was that the balls would grab on to his short hairs. So, even a kinky guy, who got off on the image of the phallus itself, might have been willing to cut them off. There are work arounds, though. TMI? Me? LOL
Charles writes:
At 12:56 PM 9/25/2004, Charles Brown wrote:
>Kelley:And they're all bound up together, so what does it matter. I don't
>see class society here, and the 'isms' over there. I didn't think you did
>either. I mean, I know that there are plenty of liberal and radical feminist
>theories that tend to do that, but I thought socialist feminism's strength
>was that it saw them as interlocking systems.
>
>^^^^^
>CB: Yes, I see male supremacy, capitalism and racism as interconnected
>systems. But I don't see heterosexuality as interconnected, mutually
>reinforcing with these in the way they are interconnected with each other.
Oh. Ima talkin' 'bout heterosexISM or hetnormativity. Not the same thing as heterosexuality. Just as being male isn't the same thing as male supremacy.
<..>
> CB: Sex acts are mainly about people having orgasms. A variety of
>"aesthetics"trigger or help different people have orgasms. The conventional
>hetero aesthetic preference is ok politically.
>
>Kelley:Awwww. now there yer being male supremacist! :) MArilyn Frye has a
>great piece on this. If yer a lesbian/bi, maybe sex acts aren't always seen
>as ending with an orgasm!
>
>CB: I'm coming off of years of advice from women that men are male
>supremacist for _not_ focussing on the woman's orgasm, so I'll choose to
>respond to those women's demands in this horny dilemma :>)
:)
>Kelley: Well, personally, I think all men just need to get fucked in the ass
>or suck some cock or something. It would do their personalities some good.
>
>(OK> look. 260 hrs of work in three weeks makes me punchy. And fucking
>horny! Thank the dead guy on a stick that my partner can leave his sister's
>soon! :)))))))))))))))
>
>^^^^^^^
>CB: I had a colonoscopy. That'll have to be it for me. And a
>Sigmoid-Freud-oscopy.
awww. You just need the right woman to help you out! :)) Better Living Through Prostate Massage!
><..>
>^^^^
>CB: Yea, hit me with the Foucault stuff when the winds die down.
smoochiez! Now, I'm gonna go finishg cleaning. I thought it would be a hurricane-free weekend. Guess freakin' not. Looks like the sucker is going to head straight for Tampa Bay. "Fortunately," that will just mean tropical storm by the time it gets here, but the winds are already whipping. Much stronger pre-hurricane winds than I've seen yet. Guess I get to spend the day storing and freezing water. Guh.
It's pretty funny. Everyone just keeps the plywood on their windows. I just got back from grocery shopping. The bagger said, "Hey, I have an idea. For Halloween, we =should keep the plywood up and start a new tradition, decorating the plywood with Jackolatern faces." HA
Here's this 17 y.or, btw, going on about how a costume this year could be a dead Prez Bush. !! Then he said, "Someone would probably get thrown in jail for that." Wahoo! A politically aware high schooler!
Hurricane-weary,
Kell
"We're in a fucking stagmire."
--Little Carmine, 'The Sopranos'
"We're in a fucking stagmire."
--Little Carmine, 'The Sopranos'