boddi satva wrote:
> On the other hand, women have to deal with the objectification male
> sexuality produces. I think the experience of being desired is just
> not what we think about. Therefore, we don't objectify our bodies in
> the same way that women do because we ourselves are not objectified
> (and if we are, we don't really care). So, indeed, "loving" our
> genitalia makes no more sense than loving our fingers or toes.
> Obviously, feeling desired is intensely erotic (and to be hoped for).
> I just think that it's not a big part of sexuality for most men.
That's fascinating. So, what is it you find sexier?
1. The fact that a woman wants you as much as you want her. 2. The fact that a woman doesn't want you....and must be conquered. 3. The fact that a woman doesn't want you as much as you want her...and must be seduced. 4. Makes no difference; it doesn't matter what she feels.
Joanna