[lbo-talk] No cock left behind

[ravi]

joanna wrote:
> boddi satva wrote:
> 
>>  On the other hand, women have to deal with the objectification male 
>> sexuality produces. I think the experience of being desired is just 
>> not what we think about. Therefore, we don't objectify our bodies in 
>> the same way that women do because we ourselves are not objectified 
>> (and if we are, we don't really care). So, indeed, "loving" our 
>> genitalia makes no more sense than loving our fingers or toes. 
>> Obviously, feeling desired is intensely erotic (and to be hoped for). 
>> I just think that it's not a big part of sexuality for most men. 
> 
> That's fascinating. So, what is it you find sexier?
> 
> 1. The fact that a woman wants you as much as you want her.
> 2. The fact that a woman doesn't want you....and must be conquered.
> 3. The fact that a woman doesn't want you as much as you want her...and 
> must be seduced.
> 4. Makes no difference; it doesn't matter what she feels.
> 

Is it because of Boddi's description of male attitude that you
left behind the choice that would (it seems) make the above
list complete:

5. The fact that a woman wants you more than you want her

(well, there's also: 6. The fact that woman wants you when you
don't want her. It seems a bit irrelevant though, here).

Doesn't it also matter, for both men and women, *what sort* of
woman/man wants him/her?

	--ravi