Yes, the challenge of seduction is pretty stimulating, but ultimately love is a lot better (hate to be sentimental).
The difference I'm talking about is more the quantity rather than the quality of sexual fantasy.
On 11/16/05, joanna <123hop at comcast.net> wrote:
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> boddi satva wrote:
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> > Comrade Joanna,
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> > I knew I was going to get into trouble.
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> No, I was just curious.
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> > The answer to your question is simpler than you propose. The thing I
> > find sexy is women. I'm not a brute. The more a woman wants/loves me,
> > the better - that goes without saying.
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> It has been my experience with many men that what they like best is "the
> challenge" rather than the encounter. So there isn't much that goes
> without saying.
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> > It's just that desire for women is a constant fact of male
> > heterosexuality and I don't think men and women have at all equitable
> > fantasy lives.
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> It's hard to know. In the heavy hormonal days of adolescence it was
> actually possible for me to experience a full-body orgasm by gazing
> intently at a boy I lusted after.
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> > Therefore, I don't think men expect women to think about us the way
> > we think about them. I think sexual desire in men is literally a
> > different physical experience than it is in women, at least outside of
> > sex itself.
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> It's impossible to know since we can't be in two bodies at once. I also
> don't know whether women have lesser drive because of the fear of being
> labeled whores or because their sexual desire is a different physical
> experience.
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> Joanna
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