On Apr 20, 2006, at 9:58 AM, Doug Henwood wrote:
> Wojtek Sokolowski wrote:
>>
>>
>> What is so strange about it? People often dig in their heels when
>> they say
>> something they did not really mean, just to vent their
>> frustrations or
>> because they did not think it through, and then they are accused
>> by other of
>> being a bad person - so they become more and more defensive. My
>> ex had that
>> disposition, so I am kind of used to it.
>>
>
> Which may have something to do with why she's your ex?
>
> There's nothing strange about it; people do it all the time. But
> it's not very helpful.
>
> Doug
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And you think that even 50% of the other postings have been "very helpful"? Marta