Jordan,
Assuming you are getting list mail, personal mail is repulsed by your "stormy banks":
> <jmhayes at j-o-r-d-a-n.com>:
> 69.17.117.60 does not like recipient.
> Remote host said: 554 5.7.1 <...my-mailserver...>: Client host
> rejected: Access denied
> Giving up on 69.17.117.60.
The combination of 554 and the error message ("Access denied") is strange. Not sure if the issue is at speakeasy or whether my relay has been grey/blacklisted... ping me if you need my mail relay info (or check my headers ;-)).
--ravi