Privelege Was Re: [lbo-talk] Re: Maoist cleanup drive hits

Carrol Cox cbcox at ilstu.edu
Mon Jan 8 16:52:10 PST 2007


Doug Henwood wrote:
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> In one, the recipient of abuse asks for it, even craves it. In the
> other, s/he doesn't. How could it be more different?

Bad word choice. The word _abuse_ connotes non-consensual activity. The "bottom" in a bdsm relationship is NOT abused, he/she is caressed in a way that he/she desires. (The fantasy may involve imaging the caress as abuse, but that gets complicated.)

Carrol



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