On Jan 10, 2007, at 12:03 PM, Yoshie Furuhashi wrote:
> Isn't the reason why a majority of straight men who are into BDSM
> enjoy humiliation rather than domination that, in the real world,
> straight men are in the dominant position (relative to women and gay
> men) and therefore they enjoy temporary reversal of reality in
> fantasy?
Quoting myself from Wall Street: a source in the gay S/m world [a top - ed] reports a Wall Streeter saying: "The more power I have the more I crave humiliation."