[lbo-talk] Pleasure, Pain and All that Jazz

John Adams jadams01 at sprynet.com
Thu Jan 11 07:33:27 PST 2007


On Jan 11, 2007, at 9:08 AM, BklynMagus wrote:


>> Whether you take the "d" in bdsm to mean discipline or dominance,
>> either is an activity which can erode the ability of the disciplined
>> or the dominated to freely give consent.
>
> Why?

I could speculate as to the reason, but instead, let me simply note that it works for the armed forces, among others.

All I'm trying to say, Brian, is that bdsm is like playing with fire. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. In fact, I could argue that's a point in its favor. I'm looking forward to getting a copy of _Fifty Dangerous Things You Should Encourage Your Child To Do_ and giving it to my daughter.

All the best,

John A



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