you are an asshole. plain and simple. i tell you something personal offlist and this is what you do with it? carrol may be a real putz sometimes, but you are beyond the pale.
you know what i told carrol when he wrote me off list? that he should feel perfectly free to flame reese (and i told that to doug long ago) and not feel as if my personal relationship with him should be some sort of protection for allowing him to say something that someone else would otherwise get flamed for. i flame and criticize reese and he me, when it's warranted. carrol and doug have both have taken me at my word and i think i've handled it all fairly well. you, however, have proved yourself to be a real ignorANUS