> Freud's dying words (so the story goes) were "What
do women want?"
and > I understand his consternation. Why women find
the simian GWB > attractive at all is a mystery to me,
but I must admit that even my > Bush-o-phobic wife
remarked on GWB's great physical shape on seeing > him
doing ranch work in F911.
First principle for understanding fantasies: they're *fantasies*! Surprise, surprise! Therefore, they are generally the *opposite* of what our conscious minds are preoccupied with, what we consciously *think* we want.
Jon Johanning // jjohanning at igc.org
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And a lot of sexual fantasies are part of the psychology of lordship and bondage power rituals which
are the leitmotif of class society. Remember Monica on her knees. Would these fantasies be taking place about these men if they didn't appear to possess power, a power which could somehow be shared by an obediant supplicant?
Best, Mike B)
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