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>Joanna, I don't understand where you get the idea that
>kinky sex means
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>>something specific
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>>>needs to happen no matter what the mood or
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I grant that non-kinky sex can be extremely boring. But this whole
thread started with someone asking why left-wingers might criticize bdsm
and I said because it's scripted.
Now I have read some very eloquent descriptions of bdsm which convince me that in some forms it can be creative and therapeutic, but tops do what tops do and bottoms do what bottoms do, and it sure sounds pretty scripted to me.
I must also confess to a personal peeve with polyamorous and kinky aquaintances who go on and on and on and on about how naughty and free and daring they are, and it's so bloody boring, I want to scream.
Joanna